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Originally Posted by TheSkyIsFalling
If someone has HPD are they capable of love? And would they intentionally harm someone physically or emotionally? Or, would they not realize what they are doing?
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I can only speak for myself, but that would be a resounding YES. Yes, we are capable of love. We feel everything very, very strongly (hence the so-called dramatics) and, for me at least, that includes love.
So the dilemma is not, can they love? But rather, can they love just one?
And, oh my goodness, I would NEVER intentionally hurt someone. That's the hardest thing about having this dx for me ... I end up hurting or confusing men unintentionally every which way I go, even though I really just want to love them. I hate that aspect of this disorder.
Thank you for asking instead of making assumptions.