Open Eyes made some very thoughtful remarks about how we need to learn what exactly we do need from others in support.

I think that some people are naturally more in tune with other people's pain ~ people like these do listen to our troubles and offer a hug, friendship and caring, etc. Lots of nurses and some doctors fall into this category. I also believe that "regular people", like many people also fighting MI are in this category as well.

Becoming in tune with the pain of others can also be learned. Many people are open to learning the skill, others aren't. For instance, some doctors don't feel very sympathetic. They may treat our illnesses, but they aren't always real caring and understanding.

There is also a portion of society that really doesn't give a hoot about others. While they are a minority, it still exists. And that's hard to accept ~ especially when you're one who has always cared for others.

That's my opinion anyway.