Sorry to say sweetie, but I agree with everyone that you need to back away for a bit and let him heal. He definitley sounds Bi-Polar, and if he doesnt seek treatment, then your relationship with him (or any relationship he gets into for that matter) will not work out. I dont know about all Bi-Polar people, but my Bi-Polar wreaked havoc on my relationship. It turned me into a green eyed jealous monster and made me think horrible things; things that werent even true and things that my mate would never do to me in a million years. Once I got medication, these thoughts and actions quieted down....and thank God I have a wonderful man who understood I was sick....I think in the meantime that you should let him get the help he needs, and maybe step back and build yourself back up as well. Best of luck to you.