Yes, T agrees with me.

I said to him, "Maybe I'm having some weird transference with him."
T said, "Or maybe that's the way he is." then looks at me intently.

He's even said right out, " it's not you, it's him." - "don't think it's all in your head." - "trust yourself."

I told T a story another T (crisis worker) told me about women banning together to throw doctors out of practice. I said, "I'm probably the only one though."
T looks at me with intense eyes and says, "You're not."
That made me sad.

They are coworkers, my treatment team. So, remembering this helps to know its not me. T is on my side.