How do u know if you're gay! I had sex wih my bd last nite And I was giving him oral, and it made me gag. I don't really look forward to sex and I even masterbate thinking of women or looking at girl-on-girl porn. I've never been with a woman so I don't know. I'm so confusedd.

Just as an FYI, I was married and am in my mid30s.