I don't want to "make" him do anything. I want communication and him to see what his depression and rages do to our family. He doesn't "see it as an issue" at all. His depression and mood swings are my fault apparently, or so he says. He doesn't have the down moods very often like most people. He is almost all anger and rage. It's so scary. I feel sick driving home from work on Fridays (he works nights, so it's the first time each week i see him) because i am scared of how he will react or what his mood is. I tiptoe around constantly trying not to say anything to upset him. I guess i just wanted someone to understand what i am going through.