SAWE... I wouldn't say stupid... the too oblivious to "get" it is why we go to therapy... I don't like it when my T doesn't just "say it"... I don't want to have to think about things he says for weeks and then try to figure out if I got his point... since you haven't said what it it... Its hard to comment but I think I might be happy if my T just said it like your T did...then again.. it might be hard to hear...