DaveyJones, thank you so much for your reply. His issue isn't the "act" but more the finish line if you know what i mean. I feel so bad for him because i know how much it upsets him, which is why i told him maybe he could go down a dose or so and use a buffer med. What upsets me is that he is going crazy with this idea and not taking his meds very often at all now. This part is what i am scared about. I am all for switching or decreasing, or whatever he wants to try (except going off completely) but he's hiding what he is doing. It is so miserable to look at the person you love more than life itself and wonder what he is hiding from you. He's back to his weekends of rage...that's what i call them. Everyone is miserable. No matter how well everything is going our weekends are filled with his anger and rage about everyday little things. I'm just lost. He will NOT go to therapy. Refuses. He exercises every evening.