with you, (((((granite)))))
you can ask if the bleeping chair IS a boundary then! you have the right to ask that, know that, and it seems like a boundary that should be open to change if it is some sort of boundary (but I think it would be an odd boundary...) anyway, it's your therapy and if something bugs you, you have the right to SAY so ..... if you don't say it, what changes? but if you do say it, good change may well happen!