Hello. I am a mother of three boys who donot listen to what you tell them to do. They keep pushing, and pushing, and pushing, and even when you have had enough, THEY PUSH SOME MORE! How do I handle children who just won't listen, and just want to play around and do their own thing? My mother in law bought this bottle of holistic solution called, "Calm" but my husband and I have not tried it yet. It's supposed to be good for calming children down who suffer from the symptoms of ADHD.