Walkswithspiritbear, like they say, one picture is worth a thousand words.... patterns, anomalies, changes...... finding words for amorphous ungraspaholdables is my life work. It is kinda like another coming out to share my analogies.... I am ever so gratified that you and others here are finding them helpful.

Good luck communicating with hubby. Sounds like he's into trying new stuff to meet you half way. Pictures, music, grunts and hand signals.... whatever makes the connection, go for it.