I'm glad the music helped some, Mike.

I fit the schizoid personality type too, and I also have OCD, so I know what you are going through.

I never told my husband about all these things, so he doesn't really know what he's dealing with, but we do manage to do ok together. It would have been more fair to him if he had known all this before we got married, but I didn't really know myself back then to explain it to him.

Your girlfriend may surprise you, and you may surprise yourself. Try to keep things out in the open, I think that works the best in the long run, and she'll be more able to understand why you do the things you do.

Even us schizoids can be in good relationships.