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Originally Posted by pbutton
I decided to give in, quit trying to push away, and let T deal with whatever neediness followed. It wasn't anywhere near the bottomless pit I was afraid that it would be.
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I do this now too.
It's hard because I feel like I have to swallow my pride sometimes, but I have learned that when I do what my heart tells me to do, I am so much better off then if I listenen to my ego. T has always, for me, given me what I've needed when I am vulnerable- and it has helped me learn to drop the protection mode around her. I can't say I am always 100% with this, but I can say T has made it safe enough for me to do it more than the other. And that's saying BIG things!