Well was it a dismissal or did you percieve it that way. If T dismissed you twice when you had something you wanted to talk about , then maybe you need to set a boundary with her. You are allowed to talk abut what ever you want, it's your dime. On another note, I am assuming you have ruled out anything physical,ie. need of medication. Was this back up T?

You have a partner and you have friends and animals.... You have a connection with all of thare in different ways and at different levels. Let's play a game....You are in a small row boat in the ocean, shark infested waters...all of your current T's and past T's are wanting you to rescue them and you only have one seat left. (physical size does not matter) Who do you choose? You must choose.