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Old Apr 12, 2012, 05:33 PM
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No, it doesn''t mean you "aren't meant to be." It takes a LOT of time to get to know a person. You don't fall in love immediately. It's a slow, slow process. If you DID fall in love immediately, it wouldn't last. That's not the kind of "love" that lasts a long time. That's just lust. Real love is a learning process -- it comes from knowing each others good & bad sides; knowing each others likes & dislikes; it comes from sharing each other secrets, plus loads of other things. And if you get thru all that and STILL care for each other then you probably love each other.

Take care. Hugs, Lee
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