Good news/bad news.

She finally gave me back the camera tonight. She never had any right to it in the first place, then she stole it and hid it and lied about it for three months, but she finally gave it back.

She's not looking at the separation as a time to heal like I was. She was looking at it as a way to keep her health insurance, because as she said she's already been divorced from me for months. She's using it as a threat of extortion. If I don't pay her insurance costs for her, she'll divorce me. There's no way I can afford that. I may post elsewhere, it would be off topic to continue here.