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Originally Posted by karebear1
Awwww granite- I'd be confused if I were you too. I can tell you're confused just by what you wrote.
As far as her raising her voice- did she actually increase the volume of her voice, or was she just more insistant in what she was saying. The reason I ask is because I was talking to my T the other day and she got really "animated' in the way she was talking to me and I thought she was mad. I said '"please don't be mad at me", and she said she wasn't mad (in the same tone of voice) that she was'challenging' me on what i was saying. Anyway..... I believe her when she says she wasn't mad, but man! She sure sounded mad to me. Maybe that's what your T meant??
I don't know granite........... I have to say she seemed less than empathetic about the chair. Did you tell her why the chair's positioning was bothering you??
And her reaction to the card......... I really don't get that. What did you say in the card that would make her angry? All you did was apologize- right?
I'm sorry it was such an awful day at T today.
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i would definately say that she was insistant .that is a good word to use .maybe that is more what she was then angry maybe but is scared me .it wasnt her i felt she was controling me with fear if that makes any sence
all i said in the card was i didnt mean to get you so angry last week.i dont know what else to say that wont make it all about me so i just really want to say i am sorry.
she said i was accusing her of being angry and it wasnt fair for me not to tell her what she did that made me feel that way
i told her she would think it was stupid and she said so now you are saying that i am being judgemental.i didnt mean that at all she was twisting around everything i said
my goodness she wanted me to tell her when i think she is angry and then she twist it all around so i cant say anything good i dont know why