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Originally Posted by Dreamy01
I don't feel able to discuss this because I will come across as needing her which fills me with shame.
I think an arrangement like you describe would really help me although wouldn't probably take away the need for her to respond. I don't know what will deal with that, I suspect nothing will.
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Yes, this is what I was thinking as I was replying. It sounds like there are two really important things here on top of her email policy and whether she replies-
1. The shame you feel at needing her, and how you can reduce this shame
2. The need for her to respond, and what this means- it is a need for closeness? acceptance? And if she is not willing to reply, how else can you meet this need?
I'm sorry you're hurting. I know how hard it is
