A good therapist will investigate confront, provoke and find someone's work points very quickly. For those that don't want to work and didn't realize that is the purpose of therapy - to work on yourself, they are left with that - here is your unresolved problem, no matter how feel, if they want to argue about it, ignore, it it is the point at which they leave off with the therapist either become hooked and decide to come back or decide not to deal with it.