I happened to see a photo of my therapist with his wife sitting on his lap. Just happened to see it. Not because I was cyber stalking him or anything. Or maybe I was, but anyway . . .

My point was that because of my own CSA thing, I find lap sitting to be extremely creepy. I don't sit on my own husband's lap, unless I'm pretty desperate for um, certain activities. So. The photo of my T and his wife just ticked me off for a whole host of reasons. I talked to him about it and it was actually helpful. Try discussing it with her.