I am a 35 year old guy that has been married for almost 9 years not and we dated 2 years befopre that. We use to be very "into" each other and having sex about 2-3 times a week. About 2-3 years ago my wife lost interest and we may have sex once every month or two. I want more and have told her that I want to be with her more and she kind of just blows it off or gets upset. I don't know what to do?