My goal is to go 2 months without cutting(1 month longer than lst time). Its been 3 weeks and I almost cant stand the intensity of the urges. I often wonder if it's good to have goals such as I just stated, or, do they more often than not, just set me up for failure. 2 months doesn't seem that long in hindsight, but thinking about 5 weeks to go,is unbearable.