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Old Apr 13, 2012, 08:18 PM
summeryoga summeryoga is offline
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Originally Posted by honeybee777 View Post
lets all listen to trent reznor and be triggered togther jk hahahaha
Actually i had another question, is anyone here physically attracted to really bad people, ive always loved the villain....idk why but always fall for the villain type..anyone else here like that?
For me, not the villain so much as the 'bad boy' (maybe that's what you meant, though?). I tend to be attracted to addicts or to guys with a really hard or sad past. I have never been attracted to preppy or religious or conservative or really well-behaved men. Edgy = yummy.

But that makes me think ... do you think you and I and maybe other female histrionics subconsciously like bad boys because they're easier for us to seduce? Not a nice thought, and that's just a thought that's crossing my mind as I type ... but I do wonder. I mean, there's no fun in trying to seduce a man who is happy or 'together' because he might not let himself be seduced by us? And god forbid we get rejected.

For me, there is also this ****ed up care-taking thing where I like nurturing men, helping them feel better, and maybe even trying to 'save' them. My therapist thinks that in part I enjoy the sense of power that might give me. Sigh.