I'm pretty boiled right now. Some of you have mentioned false accusations, and I agree completely. The father of my grandchildren (my daughter isn't with him any more) says about my husband, "The more he helps you, the more controlling he gets." News flash, you worthless deadbeat: Setting limits, saying no, or asserting boundaries is NOT being controlling. Lending you his car for weeks on condition that you don't smoke in it, is not being controlling. Taking it back and not lending it to you again because you did smoke in it is not being controlling.

I'm also sick of people who try to tell me that marijuana is not addictive and is not harmful. I know too many people who are addicted to it, many of them members of my own family. And I myself have been harmed by it, since it is the nature of stoners to make smoking weed the number one priority in their life. If they can't get a doctor to sign off on a medical condition, they'll claim to belong to some religion that will make them immune to prosecution because f--- all, they're going to smoke it one way or another. And if it's a choice between smoking a joint and saving a baby from a burning building, they're going to smoke a joint. I've seen it too many times.