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Old Apr 14, 2012, 10:09 AM
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Originally Posted by CantExplain View Post
I wish! I was just thinking "Maybe the facilitators are holding back because they want us to act" when the third member made her move.
Actually I would imagine they hoped the person being given a hard time would speak up and enforce their own boundaries (and everyone chime in in their support). You can't be bullied if you can't be bullied. It's like de-triggering one's triggers so others can't pull them.
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