With the vast majority of opinions against me, I texted my wife to ask her feelings. Told her I was getting beat up online and most people agreed with her. Said I agree the house is ours, I think my underwear is mine, how do we figure out everything else? Said it seems to have been an issue over a lot of things during our marriage, and figuring this out would solve a lot of arguments. Said I was willing to compromise a lot with so many opinions against me.

She texted back that she has always thought it was my thought process that needed to change and asked me to ask your opinions. Anyone care to respond?