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Originally Posted by Perna
Actually I would imagine they hoped the person being given a hard time would speak up and enforce their own boundaries (and everyone chime in in their support). You can't be bullied if you can't be bullied. It's like de-triggering one's triggers so others can't pull them.
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but in individual T we either lash out, which isn't ideal, or we lay down, also not the best, until we have confidence and security that T will be able to listen to and accept and survive our objections.