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Apr 14, 2012, 06:06 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
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I guess I would let her know that *I* knew about it, and that I was very disappointed in her cheating & lying.  I would tell her it was very unfair to Dad for her to be telling him she "loves" him yet she still has this guy in the apartment. 
BUT, I would not tell Dad. That's between him and her. She can't keep up this farce for long before he finds out. And he will. Someone will tell him, you can be sure -- but don't let it be you. That will only cause a huge rift in the family. Your Mom will feel betrayed by you and you don't want that.
I know this effects you horribly, but TRY not to let it bother you so much. I know it's hard -- you love them both. But they have to iron out this mess by themselves. Undoubtedly there's more to the whole story than you know about. So don't judge either one of them. 
I wish you the very best. Try to keep busy with your own life and chances are things will work out. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee
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