When you assume, you make an *** out of you and me. Now isn't that a stupid statement. It should stop at make and *** out of you. Communication is vital in a healthy relationship. If you do things based soully on what you THINK the other person wants you totally limit everything. He needs a good kick in the behind. Tee Hee. I only say that because I am soooo guilty of not communicating in my relationship but in a different way. The end result is the same though. My husband does what your boyfriend does. Just assumes that I wouldn't want this or don't want to do that. It is so totally unfair and caused a ton of hurt. Now we are concentrating on learning how to communicate. Not easy to change after 1 1/2 decades of dysfunction. Ah well, it makes life interesting.
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The snow falls on no two trees alike, and the forms it assumes are as various as those of the twigs and leaves which recieve it...so one divine spirit decends alike on all, but bears a peculiar fruit in each--Henry David Thoreau