Dear T

I am very angry with you.

Some years ago I sent you lots of hate mail. As I understand it, both the intensity and number of these emails went way beyond what is usual. And that's quite aside from the content.

So what did you do with these valuable clues? Nothing as far as I can see. You treated them as a nuisance to be stopped, and nothing more. Like many people, you treated my individuality as a crime to be punished.

You are ignoring the fact for my Aspergers and discourage me from talking about it. I am stunned by your wilful blindness to a key feature of my personality.

There are important parts of me that you are not listening to.

If you want to understand me, if you want to help me, you are going to have to start listening to the parts you don't like.