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Originally Posted by Leed
I threw myself into my family, started some hobbies that I hadn't taken part in in many years, and just kept as busy as I could. It really helped. Time is a good healer! It wasn't long before I realized that what I THOUGHT was "love" really wasn't. It was really unhappiness at home -- and he was just "there." So I had some work to do at home.
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Yes to Leed's advice. I was single and with a married man who then quit communicating with me. Fortunately I started a new job which "distracted" me some and later, met my now-husband.
It seems to me that long-distance/Internet affairs are a result of one's "real" life not being as fulfilling as one would want. I would take on a new real-world task and try to stay off the Internet altogether more than usual. I think there is a certain amount of technology addiction going on where have-computer-must-check-email rules?