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there are options for you. abuse support groups. 911 if it's physical followed by a protection order from the courts. a lawyer who can help you use the court system. shelters for abused women. plan a getaway pack-money, keys hidden outside for your car,identifying a safe place you can go, etc. leaving him.
if this is emotional abuse or physical abusde you will find therapy helpful too.
i read a book by dr.susan forward-men who hate women and the women who love them. it really helped me.
i did all the above, got the support i needed, left him and so glad i got the courage to do that.
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