Oh, Freaky, you didn't offend me. I felt bad at the idea that maybe I was bothering people when I tried to talk to them. I understand what you wrote: I have phone phobia too (I feel better somehow knowing I am not the only one) and I do not like shaking hands, and I have to strongly resist the urge to wipe my hand on my hip after I've been placed in a situation where I must shake hands. I don't like to be touched (hugged, patted on the shoulder, etc) by anyone other than my son. If you couldn't look at me when I greeted you I'd make mental note of it and keep my greetings short and in passing. I too find the "nice to meet you" phrase awkward and prefer "How do you do?" which really does not require a reply other than to repeat it or to say "Hello." I have had to cope with other people in order to make a living and it has been very difficult; I don't doubt that my depression is not only a cause but a result of this. But because of the extreme loneliness I felt and the need for a spiritual connection to people I still like to, and will continue to, greet people. But thanks for giving me insight into how it could be perceived. I think your plan to go to Northern Europe is wonderful.