Thank you both so much! I really appreciate you reading and taking the time to give me advice. I never knew there was an online community like this... I think even writing all of it out helped me deal with it a little. I really love my parents so much, but I guess it will be best if I try to stay out of this as much as possible (with the things that don't directly involve me) and just be honest with each of them. I know I need to talk to my mom about how all this is affecting me, I plan on doing this next weekend when I see her.
Abnt, you really made my feel better. "Overwhelmed" is the perfect word to describe how I feel with all of this. I really can't describe how much calmer you made me feel about everything. Like I said, I am going to talk to her soon... and let her know that I miss how our relationship was and how I shouldn't think she is a bad person for doing this. Again, thank you.