ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend now for 1.5 years so far so good. "gay relationship". well i had accepted him to out with his friends gay friends to the clubs but ive decided now against it. mainly because well all his friends are single. they spite him now cause they see me as a threat to thier hanging out. ive said time before i dont mind him going out with friends but why always to a gar bar. go bowling go drinks at a pub not some pick up joint. both of his friends on who is a coworker has issues dating and is rather childish and even ignores him at work if he feels like my bf doesnt hang out with him enough. insert wth look here. the other friend of his goes a way back and this one has screwed with another couple who is actually friends with my boyfriend as well. so im having trust issues with why exactly he needs to go to a club to "hang with his friends" when we go out to the clubs together which is rarely and i either want to go home after midnight some time they yell why you taking him home already or say to him to pressur him to stay. its getting to the point where im getting tired of putting up with it. esp the going out while im at my place. since i work in the mornings he just says dont go y ou have to work in the morning . and i let him hang just because im sure he enjoys it. but still it urks me alot! esp when i see facebook upsdates of him going out with out letting me know. or him avoiding to tell me because he knows ill disaprrove.. while i dont want to be overbearing. i do want to establish perameters in a relationship esp when it comes to the gay scence its not exactly a gentelmans club. and when we go out people i never met since we met say hi to him .so im thinking have they screwed? im a bit over annalytical but i cant help it. were moving in together and i look forward to a life long relationship with him. but i dont want to hav ehim go on partying at night alone while im at home. ive mentioned to him u know when we move into gether our friends should visit. i mean if there ones friends i dont see why being at ones home inst a viable option. am i wrong?