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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
Why cant you ask him to kiss you, or you gently kiss him? Maybe he needs you to lead a little too. It sounds like he truely doesn't know what he is doing, nothing wrong with that, we all have to eventually learn.
It sounds to me like you are constantly waiting for him to make the first move and he doesn't really know what to do and is awkward. It is not unusual for young men to wonder about breasts to be honest.
Is he the same age as you? He is shy so it may take him time, to feel comfortable but maybe you could give him gentle kisses. Do you think HE has gotten excited at all sexually?
I am wondering why he thinks he is asexual, is it because he has no experience and is just shy do you think?
Open Eyes
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Because I don't want to push anything he's not comfortable with on him...
I really think its more simply because of how much he wishes he were female honestly..
I wait for him to make the first move because there are so many tiny things which can set him over the edge depression-wise.. and i never know what would be ok and what wouldn't..
i talked about kissing with him ages ago before the whole touching thing started.. he wrote 'a kiss might be possible in the future but it'd be extremely out of character for me'
he's about half a year older but yes, the same age. I know he's been physically excited by it before.. but even that just makes him more depressed.. thinking about how his body reacts like that and wondering what it feels like on the other side of what he's doing.. i don't know why he does it honeslt if it just winds up hurting him.. its not like i ever asked him to..
he used to consider himself asexual. he considers himself bisexual now but won't date at all. he thought so because, being circumcised, he feels little pleasure at all.. during.. activities. and wasn't particularly attracted to doing those things or to people of either gender in general..