Let's see, there is a lot I think.

"That shame you feel does not belong to you, it was put upon you."
"You are a human being with the god given right to self-determination"
"I'm very proud of you"
"It took me so long to reach you, but it was worth it. I'm amazed and humbled by I found".
"If you want to take a hammer to the ticking clock on the wall, that's perfectly fine"