Thanks guys! We had a good talk this weekend. He still has not agreed to go to therapy, but will be switching his meds at his next appointment. I should point out that when we said our vows at the alter i took them very seriously. I would not expect him to give up on me and leave because things got hard (even if i wouldn't get complete help right away), and i will not do that to him. "For better or worse" means just that to me. (of course physical abuse, etc. would be the exception to that rule) It kind of amazes me how many people immediately jump to the "get out while you can or stop complaining" oppinion. I am not complaining. Maybe i should rephrase my initial post to say "Emotional support from people that have been through this before?" I love my husband and i WILL support him in his fight no matter how hard it is, because he would do the same for me. I am very sorry for those of you who do not understand my thinking and i wish you the best of luck. To those of you who "kindly" gave support and advice...thank you so much. It seems our lines of communication are beginning to open partially because of your advice.