I am not sure if I would offend him or not! If he would change I would deff stay because I really do love him. He thinks that therapy is good for me but I think he thinks that it would make him look "weak". This is just what I think. To answer other question yes I will adventually leave if things don't str8t up. My kids have been threw enough in their little time on this earth. It isn't fair for me to make it worst.