So Im in a love triangle.
And I really like this guy (guy 1) but he doesnt love me back.
And guy 1's best friend likes me, (according to guy 1, and Ive seen guy 2 drop a few hints about him liking me), and I have a few feelings for him. But guy 2 doesnt know that I have a few feelings for him. Only guy 2 knows that. And guy 2 knows that I like guy 1, I believe he does.
Guy 1 says that he (myself) doesnt love me, he says that we will never date. He has even told me to leave our relationship. Well relationship of friends. We never really dated. And he said earlier this month that I should be with guy 2. And he said I should be the one that asks guy 2 out. But the thing is I want to be guy 2's friend first, before him and I officially enter a committed relationship. And I dont wanna jump into a new relationship right now because I still have feelings for guy 1.
A lot of people know that I like guy 1. Everyone knows that guy 1 and guy 2 are best friends.
I was debating if I should be with guy 2.
I made a pro and con chart, just thinking of the pros and cons of my situation. Feel free to add some ideas.
Pros Of Being With Guy 2- He likes me, so therefore he would care about me
Cons of Being With Guy 2- It ruin the friendships between us
- I still have feelings for guy 1
Im not asking people to make this decision for me, I just want peoples advice, and what I should be cautious with while making this decision.