Wow im very happy to hear that you posted. I bet it feels great now that you let everything out? I can relate to alot. My mom used to make fun of me about my weight she even told me that i needed gastric bypass surgery... but your mom is different. Im very sorry that you have to be going through this. You are not crazy..and you are not overworking things.do you have friends or other family members that does the same to you, or do you really only have your dad? If so then i think you should try to help your dad and mabey even try to sit down with your mom jsut to tell her how you feel and trust me i know this will be hard but she is your mom and you do love her and she needs to know what your feeling.