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Originally Posted by shezbut
The con that jumps out to me is that Guy 1 doesn't even want to be friends with you.
~ What are the chances that Guy 1 & 2 are going to remain close friends if you were with 2? Wouldn't that cause some resentment?
What kind of feelings do you have towards Guy 1?
~ Just physical attraction? I hope so, because he kind of sounds like a jerk to me. Just because he says that his friend (Guy 2) likes you doesn't mean that his friend actually cares for you. It could be that Guy 2 would love to simply have sex with you. Sex and caring are NOT the same.
I know you aren't looking for other people to make decisions for you ~ and that's a good thing.  Just take my words of warning carefully. I'd stay away from both of them if I were you. Guy 2 would have to do something pretty darn special to make me reconsider. |
Im nervous that it would ruin our friendships between us.
Well at first I loved guy 1, but now things have changed so much, to the point where things would never be the same again. It had nothing to do with the fact that I like guy 2 (his best friend).
And at this moment, they are both ignoring my messages. I sent them a message, and they didnt reply. Maybe it was the fact that I was talking to both of them, at the same time while they were hanging out together. I didnt know they were hanging out together.
Guy 2 cares about me, because weve talked, and whenever I was upset because guy 1 and I would get into a lot of agruments, I would talk to guy 2. And he said "Things happen, its okay." He wanted me to be happy, because he cheered me up. And he (guy 2) always makes me laugh. Im a last minute person, and he stayed awake talking to me, until he fell asleep because it was four in the morning. He encourages to do my homework, he says like; "You should be working." I find that adorable!
