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Old Apr 16, 2012, 06:14 PM
MasterPlan MasterPlan is offline
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Originally Posted by madisgram View Post
if you want to stay in your marriage committment-then committ to it? i think some "affairs" exist cause one enjoys the secret thrill of it rather than loving the affair partner. just my thoughts.
Agree. In fact that is what is happening to me. By nature, I am an adventurous person. I like to be challenged and do out of the norm things. But my husband (married to him 9 years) is much more of a conservative and homely person. So I think more than anything what I am after is the 'thrill' and nothing else like having a serious relationship or getting together with the person that I have the affair with. The problem that I have right now is my addiction to that thrill, becuase there is nothing else exciting in my life.
Thanks for your thoughts.