Wow this sounds awful. What a nasty man to treat you this way. No compassion or understanding. How is that love? My opinion of a husband is he is an extension of myself. Part of me, he cant speak or act out this way to apart of himself struggling.

I don't know what I would do without my husband in my corner every day just believing in me more than I believe in myself. I couldn't be with him if he were to judge me and my sickness. We have only known for 3 years about mine and been together many many more. He is very understanding and has plenty of patience, because any other way it just wouldnt work out.

I hope you find strength to stick up for yourself or to move on. What a jerk? Im sorry that sounds harsh but I just cant fathom this.