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Old Apr 17, 2012, 03:42 AM
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This thread was inspired by the individual who started a thread in "Psychotherapy" on what they would like to say to their therapist.

Here's a similar thread I want to start.

I am fed up with health care providers' baloney and at best, their inability to figure out what's wrong with me.

Here's my first post:

Dear Dentist: Why did you excuse me from your practice just because you could not figure out what's wrong with my teeth?

Why can't you be honest with me and say, "Ms. ___________, I don't want to see you anymore because you will not pay $145. for cleanings."

Why do you have to milk my money? While I'm in so much pain?

Dear Doctors:

Instead of throwing your hands up in the air because my Dilantin does not help me, why don't you refer me to a neurologist? and why did you only give me 3 weeks supply instead of a month's supply of meds, when you know that I cannot go off them suddenly?

Why do you think like a robot and not like a human being?

And you order only 3 shots for my allergies when you are supposed to order 9? (1 a week)? and then the nurse yells at me because I did not make another appt. for one?

Why do I get the brunt of things?

Why are you not responsible for your mistakes?

This is an angry letter and I do not intend to send it anywhere.

This can be a venting thread or just a thread to get it out so that you can process your issues in a safe forum before you actually talk to your provider.

You can even process your good feelings about your provider if you want to.

Billi
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