Well, perhaps you can have your husband kill the lobster outside of the home first and then just cook it in the boiling water. Just find out how to kill a lobster as quickly as possible to be humane.

I dont like the boiling of live lobsters either, and I don't like harming living things at all. I cant even be around when my husband cooks lobster. And I could never raise animals for meat either, they would all end up becoming pets with names.

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