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Old Apr 17, 2012, 11:09 AM
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Originally Posted by DrSkipper View Post
I know that if you or your partner is in pain or isn't feeling good, then you need to stop. But what about the fetish itself? Is there a certain point in which a fetish becomes too taboo or risky to even perform? Are there certain fetishes that need to be avoided whether or not you or your partner enjoys it?
here in the USA (united States of America) each state / city/ town has its own rules and laws about this kind of thing.

in general here in New York its going too far when one or the other consenting adult says ***No*** after that it becomes rape, sexual assault, domestic violence.

Consenting adult means anyone aged 18 and above who is able to make their own decisions...example minor is considered not able to make their own decisions, some people with handicaps may not be able to consent depending upon how their disability affects them, a person with mental disorders may not be a consenting adult in some cases and locations..

best thing to do is contact a crisis center or police department where you are, they can tell you what the rules, laws are about this in your location. you dont necessarily have to go in to details. many that I know call up and say they are college students doing papers on the topic and need info. crisis centers and law enforcement are always willing to help educate the public here in New York/USA.