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Old Apr 17, 2012, 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes View Post
(((Sophia)))),

I agree with the other posters. I have found that many people just don't understand mental illness and they can get uncomfortable addressing it. People tend to get unconfortable anyway with anyone who is different somehow, not just with mental illness. And if you try to get understanding and advice from someone who is healthy and truely doesn't experience any kind of mental illness the can think that you may be simply just using it for an excuse or to gain attention.

Open Eyes
I agree too.

Many people don't even like any kind of emotional issue. They do seem to think that we are deliberately trying to annoy them by being upset.

I now have difficulty even crying when it's appropriate, esp. after my aunt died because I was so afraid ppl thought I was just "being dramatic" and not "manning up" to my grief (or woman-ing).

thanks,

Billi
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Thanks for this!
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