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Originally Posted by Sannah
Why?
Seeing connections between things in your life is really important for healing.
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Because it was silly to tell the therapist. I did not need to do so and it was a stupid want to indulge.
Okay - but I am clueless as to how so. I don't disbelieve you, I just don't know how it helps.
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Originally Posted by SpiritRunner
this whole thing is just frustrating and maddening to you, isn't it, stopdog? the fact that you appear to want (or to have) connection and even attachment or to feel the need and act on it, too, really yanks your chain!
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Absolutely.
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Originally Posted by tkdgirl
I wonder if this has to do with dependence and/or control.
... I also don't like the fact that sometimes between sessions I feel like I want to contact my T to tell her something, I usually resist the urge and it passes.
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I dislike not being in control of myself. It was silly to give in to the urge to tell the therapist and I did not really need to do it. If I had waited longer it would have passed and if I had waited longer, I would have been more in control of the situation and could have told friends and been able to deflect them appropriately.