I think this is a horrible way for a person that is suppose to love you to treat you. I feel awful that you have to deal with a husband like that. Personally if I was in your shoes, and if someone recorded me during my moments of being "bipolar" and wouldnt delete it or get rid of it I would literally probably break the item that it was recorded on. Im sorry you are going through this. Its hard enough to deal with being bipolar and life in itself without someone doing things to make it harder on you. You as a human being deserve better. I wish you the best of luck.